Post by sydney schyler schield on Sept 12, 2014 14:55:56 GMT -5
SYDNEY S. SCHIELD
[presto]Singer Songwriter for Red Lights – 30 – father of two - divorcee app
In general Sydney is a reserved person. He doesn't tend to do much that is outrageous. Never was it exactly cautious thing. Sydney is just methodical. There had to be a reason for him to do something. A lot of people have called him a control freak, sometimes a party pooper. The thing is Sydney just liked to be good at what he is doing. At the same time he didn't exactly use his diligent personality to do what his parents would call "respectable work."
Sydney is also someone who fixated. It is great in the sense that he fallows through. The down side is even with little things Sky won't let go. Nit picky. That might be the best way to say it. Every little thing needs to be in it's place and rightly in that place. Sydney would argue that he does it because he cares. All of that is seen in spades when it comes to his career and his children (unfortunately his marriage suffered because of all that).
Sydney had always had issues expressing things. It was through his songs that he was able to speak. His lyrics are his crutch so to speak. This communication problem makes it come off like he has a temper. Where as Sky does, it's not as extreme as it might initially come off. He just get's easily frustrated. If things aren't going his way and then he feels like he has no voice he can snap. Though having kids (he has two a girl and boy) had made him more patient, if only a little.
Having kids did make the softer side of Sydney come out. He loves the time he has with them because he honestly doesn't get much. His job keeps him from them, and their mother as well. Still he is fighting for them because his kids keep him grounded and make him see that life doesn't need to be so serious.
There is something romantic in him. He want's love. Unfortunately a lot of what he thinks is showing love is often misunderstood. Much like most emotions love is more easily described in his songs, the physical relationship for Sydney seems a lot more cold. He thinks that providing and stability (even if being a musician is a little hard to make that with) is the best way to make things work. He attracts people who want the glitz and part of his career (that he doesn't even partake in). That or woman will think he has this bleeding heart that his songs are so often built on.
Sydney is a serious man but he does still have fun. Now it is mostly running around the play ground with his kids. Before he would go to small parties. Large groups just make him nervous. A stage is where he is meant to be, looking out on a group of people who are singing back to him the words he wrote. On the stage is one of the few times to really see past all the serious business and get to the soul of Sydney, that is exactly why he does it.
[/presto]Sydney is also someone who fixated. It is great in the sense that he fallows through. The down side is even with little things Sky won't let go. Nit picky. That might be the best way to say it. Every little thing needs to be in it's place and rightly in that place. Sydney would argue that he does it because he cares. All of that is seen in spades when it comes to his career and his children (unfortunately his marriage suffered because of all that).
Sydney had always had issues expressing things. It was through his songs that he was able to speak. His lyrics are his crutch so to speak. This communication problem makes it come off like he has a temper. Where as Sky does, it's not as extreme as it might initially come off. He just get's easily frustrated. If things aren't going his way and then he feels like he has no voice he can snap. Though having kids (he has two a girl and boy) had made him more patient, if only a little.
Having kids did make the softer side of Sydney come out. He loves the time he has with them because he honestly doesn't get much. His job keeps him from them, and their mother as well. Still he is fighting for them because his kids keep him grounded and make him see that life doesn't need to be so serious.
There is something romantic in him. He want's love. Unfortunately a lot of what he thinks is showing love is often misunderstood. Much like most emotions love is more easily described in his songs, the physical relationship for Sydney seems a lot more cold. He thinks that providing and stability (even if being a musician is a little hard to make that with) is the best way to make things work. He attracts people who want the glitz and part of his career (that he doesn't even partake in). That or woman will think he has this bleeding heart that his songs are so often built on.
Sydney is a serious man but he does still have fun. Now it is mostly running around the play ground with his kids. Before he would go to small parties. Large groups just make him nervous. A stage is where he is meant to be, looking out on a group of people who are singing back to him the words he wrote. On the stage is one of the few times to really see past all the serious business and get to the soul of Sydney, that is exactly why he does it.
None right now boo!